The choice of allowing spectators while swinging should always lie with the participants. It is far from unusual for people to get enjoyment from voyeurism but perhaps less so in having people watch. If it enhances the enjoyment of sex to be observed by others who have been invited, then all well and good. However [...]

As the cost of computers has become cheaper and widespread the use of the Internet has made contacting people so much quicker and easier. Viewing the entries on websites gives a clear insight on peoples’ attitudes and where photographs are provided physical attraction can also be taken into account. The exchange of texts or communication [...]

It must never be assumed that because someone is a fellow swinger that they are up for anything and everything. Whilst some of the more adventurous types will try anything at least once, some have more defined limits. Once the parameters have been agreed for any encounter it would be in order to suggest something [...]

When swinging first started to develop, people would meet tentatively over a drink and perhaps nervously try to establish the suitability of a liaison. If a mutual attraction occurred, it was then a question of deciding upon ground rules. The process does have its drawbacks and has largely been replaced by clubs that cater for [...]

The concept of swingers clubs is far from new with the Hellfire Club being renowned for behaviour deemed as outrageous when it was founded in the 18th century. Members were usually from influential or privileged backgrounds which enabled them to continue their largely secret activities unhampered. Today, membership of clubs represent all sections of the [...]

In any long-standing relationship two people will have a fairly accurate idea of their partner’s attitude to most things. The attractions of entering into a swinging lifestyle should therefore be a matter that can easily be broached. Obviously if the partner has reacted unfavourably to any mention of swinging then it would be advisable to [...]

Any couple deciding to join the swinging community should take into account all of the implications of the lifestyle that it involves. It would be inappropriate to coerce a partner who was reluctant to participate to the same extent as the other. As swinging caters for people who enjoy a wide range of activities it [...]

The risks associated with unprotected sex should be abundantly clear to everyone, especially those in the swinging scene. Sadly the lessons have not been heeded by all – particularly the younger element. When the opportunity for sexual encounters arise unexpectedly, there will always be huge temptation to go ahead without taking sensible precautions but is [...]