Meeting People Before You Decide To Swing
When swinging first started to develop, people would meet tentatively over a drink and perhaps nervously try to establish the suitability of a liaison. If a mutual attraction occurred, it was then a question of deciding upon ground rules. The process does have its drawbacks and has largely been replaced by clubs that cater for groups with similar tastes. This can avoid potentially embarrassing situations and is generally more efficient.
As the use of computers is almost universal, the ability to select contacts that are likely to be compatible is available to most if not all potential and existing swingers. Not only are messages almost instantaneous but photographs of people who may wish to meet be exchanged. This can avoid the chance of arranging a meeting with those who are patently unsuitable.
It is essential that exchanges of details or photos are accurate and honest as providing others with misleading information will invariably lead to an unsatisfactory outcome.